Family board games: what to choose for each age
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Which board games should families choose based on children's age?
Playing as a family often means hunting for a game that will please both the parents and a six-year-old without anyone getting bored. Children's age changes everything: reading, patience, the ability to lose. Here is what works at each stage.
First of all: the age on the box is a minimum
The age shown takes three things into account: reading (is there text on the cards?), length (how long do you need to stay focused?) and the complexity of decisions. It is a guideline. A child used to games often plays a bit earlier; one who loses focus quickly, a bit later.
A good benchmark: the Kinderspiel des Jahres, Germany's award for the best children's game, given by the jury of the famous Spiel des Jahres.
Ages 2 to 4: cooperate and handle pieces
At this age, you learn to wait your turn, follow a simple rule and not cry when you lose. Cooperative games are ideal: everyone wins or loses together against the game.
- My Very First Games – First Orchard (HABA): pick the fruit before the raven reaches the orchard. A colour die, big wooden fruit, and zero reading.
- More broadly: memory and colour-matching games with big pieces.
Ages 5 to 7: speed and first choices
Children love going fast and start making real choices.
- Spot It! (Dobble): find the one symbol two cards share. Kids often beat adults, which delights everyone.
- Dragomino: a children's version of Kingdomino, Kinderspiel des Jahres 2021. Lay tiles to discover baby dragons.
- Simple roll-and-move and memory games for the youngest in this range.
Ages 8 to 10: the great family classics
The golden age of family gaming: kids read, sit through a 45-minute game and start planning ahead.
- Kingdomino, Spiel des Jahres 2017: build a small kingdom out of domino tiles. Fifteen minutes, with real thinking.
- Ticket to Ride, Spiel des Jahres 2004: connect cities by train. The family classic par excellence.
- Carcassonne, Spiel des Jahres 2001: lay tiles to build roads, cities and monasteries.
From 10: strategy and cooperation
Children can tackle games that require planning several turns ahead.
- Azul, Spiel des Jahres 2018: decorate a wall of tiles. Simple rules, lots of depth.
- Forbidden Island: a cooperative game where you recover treasures before the island sinks. More in our guide to cooperative games.
Should you let children win?
It comes up in every family. A few ideas:
- Cooperative games settle the question: you win or lose together.
- Give advice rather than losing on purpose: children quickly sense when they are being let win.
- Use a handicap: play without one of your options, or start with fewer points.
Tracking family games
Kids love seeing rankings: who won the most games of Spot It! this month, which game comes out most. MeepleThèque keeps all that in three taps per play, and cooperative plays are logged as a team, without a ranking. To store all these games, see our method for organising your collection.
Frequently asked questions
Is the age on the box reliable?
It is a guideline, not a rule. It accounts for reading, game length and complexity. A patient child used to games can play a bit earlier; one who loses focus quickly, a bit later.
Should you let children win?
Not every time. Cooperative games sidestep the question: you win or lose together. In competitive games, you can play more slowly or give advice rather than lose on purpose.
What is the Kinderspiel des Jahres?
It is Germany's award for the best children's game, given by the same jury as the Spiel des Jahres. A good benchmark for choosing a game suited to younger kids.